Abstraction and courage, explained
Would you refactor a child? A women?
When an adult gets angry at a child, it is trying to forcefully remove the innate complexity brought by birth. One may equate anger with the willingness to forcefully remove the offending complexity. In fact, all other emotions should have a computational equivalence.
When faced with complexity, some humans choose to selectively blind themselves. The “selectively” part carries information, so it creates more complexity.
Light takes the shortest path because it has no time to think. So please, observe more and describe less.